While thinking about this topic, I started
mentally rewinding all the series and lectures, books or articles1 I had
heard/read about khushoo and its importance in salah. However, what I soon
realized was that it didn’t matter how much I read or how many lectures I
listened to, the effect of having khushoo only lasted for a few prayers but was
not a consistent element in my salah.
For those who are not really sure what
‘khushoo’ is, it’s most often translated as sincerity and concentration during salah,
where you focus only on speaking with your Creator and not getting distracted
by worldly affairs.1
A famous speaker portrayed a very powerful
and beautiful definition of khushoo. He said khushoo is a feeling when your
limbs and mind become numb, when you can’t think or hear about anything else
around you because you are standing in front of the King, the Master and
speaking to Him.
Sadly, there have been instances when I rush
through the salah and sometimes even forget if I am praying the 3rd rakat or
the 4th one! In trying to figure out where I was going wrong repeatedly, I
narrowed down on the following points, which I hope helps you to develop
khushoo when you pray next time, insha’Allah.
1. Get into the grove even before prayer
begins:
Imagine how we would plan for a meeting or an
interview. We would begin with checking if we are dressed properly, if our
papers are ready and if we have perfected our speech. We would probably even
repeat the speech many times over to make ourselves look prepared and
confident.
Imagine the amount of pre-preparation we have
to do to talk in front of the Lord of the Heavens and the Earth! So, in order
to focus in salah, let us prepare even before we actually start praying.
Condition your mind and nafs to get into the grove by:
- Repeating after the adhaan
- Reciting the dua after adhaan
- Doing wudhoo with concentration
- Dressing nicely! (You are presenting yourself in front of your Lord, remember?)
- And, most importantly, pray on TIME.
2. Learn something new:
Try learning a new short surah or maybe even
a few verses from a long surah. Recite the same after fatihah. This way, you
are automatically forced to concentrate on reciting something new. In turn, you
will be keeping your heart and mind vigilant. This is an extremely powerful
tool to prevent your mind from wandering away into thinking about other
inconsequential matters while praying.
3. Don’t steal while praying:
Abu Qutaadah RAu said: “The Prophet SAWS
said:
‘The worst type of thief is the one who
steals from his prayer.’ He said, ‘O Messenger of Allah, how can a person steal
from his prayer?’ He said, ‘By not doing rukoo’ and sujood properly.’” 1
When treating salah as a form of physical
movement, we tend to rush through to get over with it! But, we lose the blessings
of performing salah here. While performing sujood, spend a couple of minutes
extra to make dua. Bow your heart along with your body and submit to the
Highest Power. Allow humility and peace to enter your heart and mind while
praying rather than being worried about what meal to prepare or what task to
complete at office.
While getting up from sujood, sit up straight
and then go back into sujood position slowly, rather than slamming your forehead
to the ground in quick succession. Feel relaxed and allow each bone in your
body to feel at ease. Salah gives you a free ticket to talk to the King of
Heavens and the Earth, acknowledge the fact that it is a graceful and powerful
meeting!
4. Learn the language:
Well, the main reason why most of us find it
difficult to concentrate in salah is because we fail to realize the magnanimity
of the occasion, fail to realize whom we are speaking to and in most cases,
don’t even understand what we are reciting because most of us are not native
Arabs.
The best way to develop khushoo is to learn
the language. If you don’t find the time or the means to learn Arabic, you can
start by learning the meaning of the surahs that you generally recite during
prayer. Try listening to the tafseers of those surahs and you will
automatically realize the beauty of each letter mentioned in the Glorious
Quran, helping you concentrate on every single word being uttered in salah,
making you crave for more, insha’Allah.
5. Perfect your relationship with Allah
Allah SWT says:
“… and establish prayer for My remembrance”.
(Surah Taha 20:14)
This is the Lord, the All Mighty, All
Powerful asking us to pray so that we remember Him?! Is there any moment in
your life when you forget your own families or kids? Now, how is it that we
forget the Creator, the one who created our families and kids?
You might be wondering why I’m talking about
perfecting our relationship with Allah SWTon the same lines as that of khushoo.
Ever noticed how close we get with friends when we get to know them better? A
phone call or an online chat with them becomes more important than anything
else. Imagine how much more engrossed in salah we would be if we could develop
the same kind of relationship (if not more) with our Lord ?
Our Rabb provides even after our
disobedience, He loves us more than our own mothers do, He SWTdescends down
during the last part of the night waiting to see if His slaves ask anything
from Him, so isn’t it time we perfect our relationship with Him SWT?
Understanding and allowing His Mercy and Love
to enter our hearts will make our hearts humble, filling it with unimaginable
love, automatically making us yearn for more chances to speak to the King, the
All Merciful and Oft Forgiving, with complete concentration!
Start thinking about Allah SWT throughout the
day and it will be easier to talk to Him SWTwhen you are given 5 chances to do
so. Take the first step, and He will come running towards you!
6. Defeat Satan:
“Then I (Satan) will come to them from before
them and from behind them and on their right and on their left, and You will
not find most of them grateful [to You].” (Surah Al-A’raf 7:17)
Satan has promised to annoy us and take us away
from the straight path. We are given a challenge here to submit ourselves to
our Lord and not let the Satan win. Salah is probably the most perfect time for
Satan to distract us and he does end up succeeding on more occasions than one.
Suddenly, an unfinished work seems more important and his whispers start
getting louder. Crush the satanic whispers from within.
Stay away from haram, do not waste ‘free’
time, read beneficial books and do not make your mind a piece of meat for Satan
to devour upon. Keep Satan at bay when you are not praying and you will
automatically be successful in cutting out his whispers while praying
insha’Allah.
7. How’s your dua list?
Most of the time, we end up asking the same
set of duas with an added ‘demand’ here and there according to the situation we
are in. Notice how we always have something new and exciting to share with our
friends everyday? But, why is it that we tell the same stuff to our Lord in
every single prayer? Speak to Him SWT with zeal, enthusiasm and humility. Start
diversifying your dua list. Increase your time in sujood and make dua, don’t
rush to finish tasleem and walk out. Ask dua constantly to increase khushoo
levels.
Want to be successful? Here’s how:
“Certainly will the believers have succeeded:
They who are during their prayer humbly submissive (khaashi’oon)” (Surah
Al-Mu’minun 23: 1-2)
In the aforementioned verses, Allah SWTsays
those who have attained khushoo (khaashi’oon) are indeed successful. He doesn’t
call them religious, He calls them successful. Notice the choice of words here?
When you manage to discipline your nafs, mind
and heart in front of the Highest Power, it becomes easy to discipline yourself
within the boundaries of Islam while dealing with worldly matters too, making
you successful here and in the hereafter!
Know that you’ve experienced a small
percentage of khushoo when:
- You can only hear the words which you are uttering to our Lord and nothing else
- When external noises are muted
- When every single worry in your heart ceases to exist
- When the beauty of Allah’s Mercy and the magnanimity of talking to Him SWT fills your heart with awe, so much so that you don’t want to complete your prayer and let the beautiful meeting end,
- When your limbs get soaked in numbness
- When you feel sad that your meeting and one-on-one conversation with Allah SWT is coming to an end during the last rakat
- And, when you cry (without feeling embarrassed that someone might see you), making you yearn for the next salah!
May Allah SWT make us of those who are successful.
May Allah SWT make us of those who are the chosen ones in His eyes. May Allah SWT
allow our hearts to taste the sweetness and beauty of this blessed religion.
May Allah SWT make us of those who develop khushoo in every single prayer we
are allowed to perform until our last breath! Ameen.
Please share your suggestions on attaining
khushoo in the comments section below, insha’Allah.
Reported by Ahmad and al-Haakim, 1/229; Saheeh al-Jaami’, 997 ↩
Jizak Allahu Khairan
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